Random SoHo Pics....

 

A couple of months ago, me and my friend Bee were in SoHo doing what we do best: walking around, lol . I just found these pics on her Blog. I love my girl Bee! It sucks that we haven't been able to hang out as much as we used to now that I'm back in school and starting a new job; but her Bee-Day is coming up so I will definitely see her then. I have to say, she is one of those friends who tells you like it is; and for that I will always keep her on my team. Friends like that are 1 in a million.

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We Can Never Be Friends.....?

"You realize of course that we could never be friends"- Harry Burns (When Harry Met Sally, 1989)

This movie is one of my favorites, it is absolutely hilarious! I have been thinking about this subject for a while and with my rap sheet I think it might be true. Once I got out of my akward all-arms and legs phrase and started to actually look and act like a girl; my friendship with all my guy friends into a new extremely level. Imagine being the one that know your guy friend like the back of your hand and they think your "hot" because you finally developed curves and you actually started to curl your hair, lol. That being said you can understand how I went from all my best friends being guy friends to having one. I have guy friends but I keep them at arms length since that all seem to want to date me. Being a girl that loves action and horror movies, football, basketball, eating junk food and just hanging out is a win-lose situation. So now as I get in contact with a lot of my former best friends via Facebook; I have to pose the question: can male and females who are or once were attracted to each other just be friends? Can we intentionally form a friendship without having the dreaded "where is this going" talk? It seems like EVERYONE wants to be in a relationship when they find out they have something in common. I know that relationships first start from friendship but can the relationship just be a friendship and nothing more?

Happy Birthday!

Today is my best friend Lizzy B’s 25th Birthday. She’s officially a quarter life! I am so excited for her; everything is moving forward for in her life. She’s engaged and moving to Atlanta to teach there. I am so happy that she is a best friend of mine. I thank God for her everyday! I have known Lizzy B since we were in JHS. I was promoted into her class and didn’t know anyone because it was in the middle of the term. She befriended me and as they say the rest is history. I am also thankful that she’s a child of God like I am. It feels good to know you have someone to go to talk about things secular and spiritual. To have someone offer to pray for you and also want to shop with you is definitely the best of both worlds, lol.